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Old post that I thought should be shed light upon, since I’m about to leave for college anyways, too lazy to create one. LOL.

The bf told me about a friend who is in the process of chasing a girl. A lot of effort is done to please the girl, he said.

I told my dear:
Me: I see a lot of people putting in a lot of effort when they’re busy chasing girls or guys. Makes me feel that we’re uber lucky dear.

Dear: Lucky? What happened to our 6 year-long friendship marathon? No effort, no gain leh. It wasn’t easy.

It struck me that while most people put in lots of effort in finding the right one, we already found each other right in the first place. As friends. True ones that are chicken soup to your heart and soul. True, it may sound easy - I bumped into him on the Internet?! But the fact is, we’re just the same as any other couple. We put our heart and soul to nurture our friendship, taking things slowly, one at a time.

Sometimes it’s not about chasing a girl you ‘fancy’ blindly, showering her with all the love and affection you can when you’re trying to woo the gal. Sometimes it’s looking at the people around you in a deeper perspective. Who knows? The right person might just be around the corner.

And I hate people who are extremely against good friends turning into couples. Those extreme types who limit themselves, that is. Shallow minded bastard. True, some people DO maintain platonic friendships. But restricting yourself from falling in love with a good friend is utterly ridiculous. So you’d rather meddle with a girl you just met fresh off the street rather than go for someone you’ve known and deeply cherish from the heart?

Think about it.

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